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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel that I'm an close minded and introvert person. I keep failing to be friend with people for a long period of time. I'm just feeling hard to agree or accept if there's differences between. Sometimes I'm just feeling so lonely and isolated because of this. I think I have good sense of humour. But sometimes I can brag about myself in front of my friends. That's automatically. I think why I'm become like this is because I'm lack of self esteem and not confidence around them. Is there any ways to change our behavior and attitude? I really can't stand on this situation anymore.. I want to have better life. I can't stand on feeling of this loneliness. Luckily, I have family that love me so much. Otherwise, I still feel that something is not complete. I need friends, I really wish to socialize with many people
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): you should realise every person is free to think how they want to.. every body is entitled to their own opinion..if you feel yours is different than them fine.. but you don't have to verbally bash out people..see not everyone can be your friend.. some people will actually be mean and rude to you.. so don't be sad about not being friendly to everyone...just try to know who are good people who are nice to you. and be their friends.some people will try to fit into groups.. even do stuffs like drugs.. just to fit in... don't do stuffs like that..just find a set of friends who are nice to you.. an don't be too opinionated with them.. learn to like their small mistakes too.. but find people who are actually nice.. some people will use you.. so don't fall for these people...In all honesty.. the best way to make friends is by taking similar classes... learn swimming, learn painting.. watever you like.. maybe out of school.. and you can make friends there...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2012): Thanks for the advice.. I wish I could have many friends and kill this loneliness..
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reader, ego  +, writes (3 March 2012):
well you are better off than most....you are well aware of your faults and know the problems they cause you.
we all have much inner work to do, we must always strive to be better people. you are half way there already being that you can see your faults now you just need to work on them and when you notice these faults in others to be more acepting of them.
if you keep losing friends this suggests you are pretty good at making friends! so make some new friends and be the new self you want to be!
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