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writes:I'm French and I am in a relationship with an Irish girl . I am 37 and she is 21 . She was 17 when i met her first , yes i know she was young and i did try to not let my feelings get me but they did :-( I am with her 2 and a half years and i really love her. We did not meet in the most romantic place at all we actually met on youtube . I was looking for videos about Ireland and i came across her on a video showing people Ireland ,she came out of nowhere, it was so strange how i found her . She was so beautiful her long brown wavy hair and green eyes made her very attractive i didn't think we'd ever meet ever. But after i saw her video i mailed her and told her she was pretty and her videos of Ireland were great . She didn't even look 17 i thought she was at least in her 20's . But anyway 8 months later after mailing daily we met when she was turned 18 i came to Ireland for 2 days , She showed me her hometown and tourist attractions and I told her to come to France i admit she was very weary of me , she would look at me as with this curious look , but after i trying to convince to her to at least let me show her France she said yes and that summer she came to me for 3 days and i showed her Paris .She learned a lot of french from me and i was able to perfect my English, I couldn't control my feeling for her so i told her i liked spending time with her very much we then began to meet more frequently until we became a couple. At first her father scared me her dad would look me up and down i'd feel so awkward and i felt like ending our relationship quickly but i fell deeper in love and i just couldn't however now they trust me since they see we are together long time. Right now i feel our relationship need to move to the next step . I feel in myself we are together for quite sometime but she is young and i'm afraid she will say shes just 21 and no way . One thing that did disappoint me was when she told me that she had no intention of having kids until late 20's which isn't so good for my age :-( But it doesn't matter . I really like her and her family . We are both living in France now . She moved in with me last year and that's what has in my mind made me feel we should get married as we can live together . Do you think it is too soon for me to ask her ? Do you think she's too young ? If you think i should propose what is the best way to propose to a young girl ?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 March 2012):
 You have been together a long enough time. I think a proposal would be very nice. I also think that every woman dreams of a romantic proposal with a ring and heart and flowers age not withstanding.
I was married at 21 (granted what I wanted at 21 was not what I wanted at 29 but that doesn't work for everyone)
my mother was married at 19 and would still be married to my dad had she not died at 58
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2012): awwwwwwwwww how lovely!!! yes i think u should do it!!
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (3 March 2012):
 "Do you think it is too soon for me to ask her?"No I don't think it's too soon. You've known been dating for 2 years and most importantly, you have been living together for an entire year. Based on the fact that you have lived for 1 year, I don't think it's too soon."Do you think she's too young?"Honestly, I think she is too young for you period. Clearly you didn't care about her age when you dated though, right? Wasn't she too young at 17, 18, 19 and 20? You must not have thought it was a big deal, so you dated her anyway, right? So if she isn't too young to date, too young to have sex with, why would she be too young to marry?"If you think i should propose what is the best way to propose to a young girl?"I don't think age has anything to do with proposals. I don't think a 21 year old wants something different from a 30,40 or 50 year old woman. At any given age, women want romance. It's that simple. You're French, you should know a thing or two about it!
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