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30-35,
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writes:Hello, I'm 18 and in need of some advise. I can't orgasm, in fact whenever I have sex I can't feel anything. I haven't told my boyfriend this cause I don't want to hurt his ego so I usually fake it. I haven't told anyone. He says I'm great and we have sex maybe two or three times a week. We try different positions and try new things but nothing. When I was young I was molested for about five years by the same person. Could that be why? I can't help but think of this being my answer. If it is, how do I fix it? If it's not.. then what's wrong with me? HELP!!!
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (17 March 2012):
 Because most women cannot reach orgasm through penis-in-vagina intercourse. The vagina isn't the source of sexual pleasure with most women, the CLITORIS is. So, if you don't know the location of your clitoris, do some google searches, educate yourself, and then teach your boyfriend.
During intercourse, most women use their own hand/fingers to stimulate their own clitoris (or use a small vibrator, etc) in order to reach orgasm. It's perfectly normal that you can't "feel anything" or reach orgasm just with penetration.
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reader, VerooD6 +, writes (16 March 2012):
 I think you have just gotten use to having sex and don't really have much of an interest for it
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