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writes:Okay so I just got out of a 2 year relationship where I was cheated on and lied to constantly. I am not ready to date or for commitment for a long time. There is this guy who likes me though who I have been hanging out with for a while and texting, he is really sweet, and honest, and caring and the complete opposite of my ex. When he told me he liked me I didn’t play games and let him know right away I didn’t want a relationship or any sort of commitment at that time. He had also said he didn’t want to develop interest in someone who would be sleeping around and I told him I had no intentions to I like what we had going. At the time this was true, but since I have been with him I have been with two other guys. I was never committed and Its not like I couldn’t be with whoever I want, but he still likes me and I tried to break it off another way (I don’t want to hurt him) I sluffed off his texts and acted uninterested, told him I was into hard drugs which I have been lately, and just told him im not a good girl for him. He didn’t get the hint, so I am meeting with him tonight…whats the best way to let him know I have been with other guys and am not committed to him like that without hurting him or making myself seem promiscuous??Thanksss!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012): Just be honest with him. That's all any of us want in the end, even when it hurts. So say, I know you have feelings for me, but I don't have feelings for you, I am sorry to hurt you, but that is how it is and I don't want to lead you on.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (17 March 2012):
Just tell give to him straight....that fact that u are using excuses will actually lead him on and he will come to realize that you have lied.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 March 2012):
 You don't have to tell him what you're into. All the information he needs is found in this statement: "Hey, (insert name here): I notice you still love me, and I'm sorry to break your heart but I don't. Please don't insist".
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