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female
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anonymous
writes:OK so when my boyfriend was.going through hard timesI was there. He'd always call me. He even got into some problems with the street where he owed money and I had to pay them offFor his safety. He promised to pay me back when he got a real Jobbut didn't. Now he has a great job, which he is successful atAnd like he doesn't even recognize me. He never calls me. He ignore me. I haven't spoken to him in 4 days what do I do been with him for two years!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): What's your question OP?
Do you want the money back? Are you worried that he's spent a whole epic 4 days without contacting you? What?
Tell us what you want to know so we can advise you otherwise 4 days is not long to be out of contact and if you want your money back then just make him pay you back or take him to court.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 March 2012):
 This is a textbook example of why you never, and I mean NEVER EVER EVER give money to your boyfriend. Not ever, no way no how unless you plan on torching your relationship.
He used you. You were his crutch and gave him money. Now that he doesn't need you, you're old news. He does not and never will pay you back unless you take him to court.
This guy used you, got what he wanted, and is now gone. I'd get stern about getting your money back, because I think he's bailing on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): "And like he doesn't even recognize me. He never calls me. He ignore me. I haven't spoken to him in 4 days what do I do been with him for two years!"
Accept the reality you've wasted two years of your life on a user/loser whom you stood by during tough times and who now thinks he's better than you, learn your lesson (never loan money to deadbeat user/loser boyfriends), and begin moving on to the rest of your life.
Nothing else you can do. You know where you stand. He's not worth the effort it takes to waste one more second thinking about him.
Sorry you had to learn such a tough lesson, hopefully as a result you will make better choices regarding boyfriends in the future.
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