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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my bf has been acting wired i keep asking him whats wrong but he does have much to say he keeps telling me hes just tired he works nites but he only works three times a week so its not like hes doesnt get any sleep also hes been acting weird latly like irated by me for asking hem whats wrong he has a attidue with me when i call hem its like he has nothing to say to me we have a 7th month baby and we been togther for 4 years now im positive hes not cheating idk what the problem could be with him so if any has advice with what could be bothering hem please help! men are so weird its hard for me to know whats wrong with hem especially when you ask them over and over and they have nothing to say!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): "men are so weird its hard for me to know whats wrong with hem especially when you ask them over and over and they have nothing to say!!"
A man who has nothing to say when a woman repeatedly asks him "what's wrong?" over and over and over again usually doesn't think there's anything wrong so he can't answer
or else is keeping secrets so he doesn't want to answer as such secrets usually involve other women.
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reader, dotconfused  +, writes (16 March 2012):
Stop asking him what is wrong, although you only care, in my experience men tend to get annoyed by this and turn it round into something completely different. Its so hard because you love him and want to help, perhaps he is a bit down? and I think maybe hard for him to admit, the other side of the coin is that perhaps he is feeling bored, well dont let him make you paranoid, smile be happy, look after yourself as I fussed and cried as he was sad but I think he then looked on me as the problem and he ran. Looking back I was a paranoid mess, and this was due to me asking all the time what was wrong, crying as thought he didnt love me any more. He was depressed and I probably made him worse. I dont know if that helps but i wish you good luck
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