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My wife was turned on by sexy pole dancers

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Question - (11 March 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2012)
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

We have been married for almost 9 years and have had a good sexual life. Recently in one of our trips abroad we went to an all girl strip tease/ pole dance show together and I really enjoyed it. What I found surprising is that even my wife really enjoyed it and we had really hot sex when we came back to our hotel room. She still raves about the female strippers and says that they were very good. Does this mean that my wife is developing bi-sexual interests? She has never like the idea girl-girl sex but seeing this really confuses me as she found those strippers very sexy and we had realy hot sex when we came back from the strip tease show.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012):

don't worry.its normal.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012):

It could mean bi-sexual interests. But if this is the only time you have assumed this I highly doubt it. Let's face it. Girls are better to look at. Yeah you guys got muscle but we are so curvy and sexy! Even straight girls find porn appealing with girls because we are just beautiful creatures and seeing their pleasure and sexiness makes us feel sexy. She was probably turned on by the sex appeal and the thought of being super hot and sexy like them....for you. Trust me it's normal. She is fine. Let her enjoy it with you. You two should go out more often and watch 'em you'll get some great sex!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012):

I wouldn't get too excited... lol! She is probably just very secure in your relationship now. ( being that it has been 9 years ) Us, (as being women) can compliment other women in either a sexual or non sexual manner with no tendencies of being a lesbian. I wouldn't try to push her into "being" with another woman, you would easily crush her to pieces and possibly destroy your marriage. Value your relationship with your wife and leave it alone. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012):

Does it even matter? If she is Bi, shes still your wife, and still loves and is married to you. She could've also gotten turned on by the fact that you were getting turned on.

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