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Is it OK if the girl calls after 4 dates, or does that ruin 'the chase'?

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Question - (11 March 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2012)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Guys

Should we call you after say 4 dates? Or do you lose interest and back off if you dont feel like you're in " the chase"

Honestly.

If you've started calling/texting less what gives?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (12 March 2012):

Honeypie agony auntI absolutely agree with Uncle Jmtmj! Playing games is lame. If you want to call him, then call him.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (11 March 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntA REAL savvy guy/stud can have a girl calling - repeatedly and desparately - after just two dates..... In fact, the BEST OF US (I'm one of them!) can have the girl calling to us before we even get home from dropping her off after the FIRST date!!!!

Please give us more details, and we'll see if you're doing even "adequately" at all!!!!!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (11 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI've always chased what I wanted. And gotten it.

That being said... if he's calling and texting less, then he's not as interested as he was....

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (11 March 2012):

Jmtmj agony auntMeh, everybody's different, what works for one person may not work for another. Personally I hate the whole "chase" thing. Its lame.

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