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writes:Okkk...my boyfriend is steady saying he loves me but yet he told me that he is atracted to this other girl.he also told me that he isnt falling in love with her or anything he only loves me but i dont know what to do about this...an we broke up 2 times already an he asked me out again the other day a i took him back its a on and off relationship and i really need to know what to do about this situation.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 March 2012):
 He's a really nice boy but you are both so young that you are still figuring out what you want.
You can't make him not like other girls and it's best if you not get your hopes up that this is going to work out.
It sucks to be your age and have adult feelings...
But the truth is you will meet other boys you will like even more later on... not that you want to hear that now...
you need to figure out how to let him go because two breakups already are one too many.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI lyke that answer but i love this boy so much i still dnt know what to do hes a really nice boy
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): One word: DUMP
he is using you, when he has no girl he comes crawling back. As the other answer said he's just playing nasty games. Get the hell outa there girl!!! You are worth so much more. If he fancies her, fine. He can do that. Just tell him it's over if he is interested in another girl. And when things go wrong with her he'll want you back. Don't say yes. There are plenty of nice guys out there for ya. He ain't one of them. It may be hard but see the full picture. Look from somebody elses shoes and see what he's doing is wrong. Dump him. Move on. Be happy. Best of luck! XXX
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reader, dimplez77  +, writes (11 March 2012):
You too young for this drama having a boyfriend at your age should be fun and carefree not riddled with drama. If you not sure about your boyfriends faithfullness then its best you leave him. relationships are built on trust. Yes some guys admire other girls at times because lets face it their guys but that doesnt mean he should be telling you or taking thhings any further. You need to ask yourself a question if hes attracted to her what are the chances of him acting on it?
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reader, Jingles +, writes (11 March 2012):
Hi, One way to think about this is to think about what you would do if you were listening to your very best friend telling you this story or even a younger sister. How would you feel? It is very different when you try to look at it from a distance. Is this how you wish to be treated? No, I heard you say...well then why are allowing it? There are girls and boys that play these games. What your boyfriend is saying is: I'm going to tell you that I love you so you will wait around until I see if this other girl will go with me and then he will either tell you right away that it is over and leave you broken (most don't), or he will play games for awhile, keep lying so you think it is all in your head because his lies are so good..then he finally he will tell you the truth and go off merrily. That will hurt even more. ONCE YOU ACCEPT this type of relationship, ANYTIME in your life, you have sold yourself short. Be number one or NOTHING period. He is attracted to her..fine..give him the boot. Too bad for him, he lost a great young lady and guess what, he is going to do the SAME thing to her too and the next one and on and on. I think you deserve much better, don't you?
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