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writes:My Husband is sexually so active (2-3 times/day in an intercourse, and last for 50-60 mins each time or 7-8 time if masturbating),for the first few months of our marriage, i used to bleed after intercourse, and feel sore even though, i checked with the doctor and now that doesn't happen anymore but my man has became paranoid, and stopped touching me except once/week if he does! He keeps masturbating while looking at Erotic photos. Sometimes, i talk dirty and play with him to let him know that i still exist but that it is not enough, I wanna some techniques/ways to satisfy my man! Some stuff i can do to make him come more often until he overcome his fear! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): I had the same problem with my wife since her vagina could be hurt easily. I was scared to touch her.
female condoms may help. when you wear them, your vagina looks safer and more protected.
and 50-60 min is too much! I guess every girl would be sore by doing it 50 minutes everyday!
masturbation de-sensitizes the penis and he won't be able to reach climax by feeling the vagina. he has to stop masturbating in order to be able to cum easier during vaginal sex.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (11 March 2012):
 Well, oral sex is one way if you would be willing. It is confusing why a husband would refrain from sex with his wife if everything is ok down there. If you want to do orally, it should certainly please him and you probably know how to do it.
He might become somewhat addicted to your oral pleasures, however. If you want tips about that, then just ask us.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 March 2012):
 He "sounds" like a guy who has REAL problems with REAL intamacy with a REAL woman like you....
Do you want this to be the intimacy of the rest of your life? ...(of the rest of your MARRIED life?).... or do you prefer to get out early (read: now) before you get to spend much more time lamenting that you and he don't have a very healthy s*x life????
Good luck...
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