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writes:I'm in a new "something" with a guy I've know for a little while. I like him soooo much it bugs me and it's hard to not call or text ALL the time so far I let him initiate it 90%. We've gone out 4 times and slept over twice But not had sex, just making outWe talked about taking it slow he was a gentlemanI told him Iike him so much and he said the sameWe get along really well together talk nonstop etc and there is great chemistry. But I dont trust men and shouldn't after the last few guys I've dated He's kind of acting aloof when we aren't together. Disentangle call or text for a couple days for example. I mean is this normal? At what point can I expect more stability and communication?I'm not playing hard to get but I've been told that men want the pursuit Advice please :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): So, I read this question and felt like you took the words directly from my own thoughts. I am going through an almost identical situation and would also like advice. So people, you awesome advice-givers out there, please please help the BOTH of us! Thank you!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): Letting a guy sleep in your bed at night on the first few dates, before you even know him, is NOT playing hard to get!! It shows a desperation to be liked and comes off too eager and low self esteem driven.
Did you talk about taking things slow or did he? Usually a guy will call you all the time when he's really excited about you, not giving you the hot and cold treatment.
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