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writes:I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. He flirts with my best friend, he grabs her booty while hugging her, and his best friend told me hes a player. Honestly I trust my boyfriend but I just seem to have these doubts in my head. (Hearing myself complain makes it sound like Im just jealous.) I want to tell him to stop flirting with my friend but I feel as though hes going to take it offensively and theres a chance we might get into a fight. Im scared of that and dont want anything of the sort to occur. Should I just get over it? Its not a big deal I understand but I want to get more into our relationship and I just can't seem to, thinking these awful things every night.... What would you guys recommend I should do?
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (11 March 2012):
I would tell him straight that you don't like it! Its totally unacceptable behaviour and he is showing no respect for you.
I would also listen to his best mate - I say that because, I recall being about your age at the time it happened to me, and I was seeing a guy who behaved in a similar way - his best mate warned me from the start, and by god should I have listened to him... but I didn't, I had to find out the hard way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): I'm sorry to say that but your boyfriend sounds like a player. If I were you I would definitely tell him how uncomfortable I feel with his actions. If he really cares about your feelings he would not even brazenly grab your best friend's booty or flirt. See how he reacts and responds to when you tell him your feelings. If he doesn't make an effort to change it's time for you to move on!
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reader, orangefoxes +, writes (11 March 2012):
That's not fair to you. Speak with him about it. If he continues to do stuff like that, I would just break up with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): I would listen to his best friend and keep an eye on the situation. Grabbing your friends booty should be out of bounds. If he cant see that and mentioning it to him will cause a fight, then you need to assess whether this is someone you could truly be happy with because it sounds as if he has no boundaries...and he need some!
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