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*panico2488
writes:We are in a relationship living together with one daughter. Known him for six years now. Together for about five of them. Idk where to start my question I guess I feel trapped , and alone. I cheated on him and our cheating/decieveing issues goes way back...but recently i cheated in the past year...he knows about it and now he's distant with me, come home with glitter on his face...i believe now he is cheating, what to yall think?
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reader, kpanico2488 +, writes (27 June 2012):
kpanico2488 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for those answers
.i will think about it all, and hopefully it will become positive instead of negative. I have been pretty down lately.idk where to turn to because I have tryed to talk to him its just so hard. Thanks for some input though all that have answered :-)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Seems to me that you two are only together because of the child, not really fair of the child to have to be the glue to this dysfunctional relationship.
Maybe he is distant because he wants out, but isn't sure how to do it. Maybe he got a hug from a person with glitter on her, doesn't mean he cheated.
I think you two have reached the end of the relationship and that you need to figure out how to deal with it maturely and for the best way for your child.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (27 June 2012):
So you have a long history of cheating in a relationship yet you decided to have a child together.
Honestly, sometimes I wonder if some people even think for a nanosecond before embarking on the most important decisions of their lives.
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reader, mpumie  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Its always like that. I'm a woman and I hate who cheats especially I've never cheated. I'm in a relationship whereby the person that I'm dated has cheated on me since then I don't love him the way I used to, its even worse when you as a woman have cheated on your. He will see you or look at you like you are filthy or dirty cause you have slept with someone else. It so hard to love, trust and give your all to someone who has cheated on you. It will take time. But at least he is still with you and that he was madly in love with you but you broke that trust. Be patient with him. He will come around.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Well glitter and him being distant is not enough evidence for cheating is it! So I cant answer whether or not he has cheated, you will have to ask him if you want the answer to that question.
I would suggest him being distant is because of your cheating - he will be hurting and of course he is not going to be as close to you as before, because you destroyed his trust, hurt him and now his feelings for you will have changed.
It sounds like you need to sit down with your partner and have a heart to heart, get him to open up about how he feels about your cheating and where he wants to go with this relationship in the future. This relationship clearly is not working because you are cheating frequently, so you need to sit down and work out what you both want from the future and if this can be fixed.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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