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writes:I am 18 and for a couple of years I've had this soft spot for a certain porn video. It is all about foot fetish. It's just licking and kissing etcetera and the people are kind of clothed but in real life I have a foot fobia and in any other video with feet or genetalia in general, I'm turned off completely. I don't understand it. Why am I like this?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Something about the video caught your attention. I prefer younger men but there’s always Sean Connery… .so even occasionally we go for things not normally in our repertoire… I’d relax and not worry about it.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Is there a problem here? I don't really see one, just a small peculiarity, a quirk. I know people who dislike ketchup but like BBQ sauce. It doesn't really cause any difficulty in their lives. Maybe just accept that you are odd that way and don't worry about it.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (27 June 2012):
 It's really not important "why you are like this."
Having a fetish such as you describe is harmless... and to stifle it is probably more destructive than simply living with it... so let it be.....
Good luck...
"Harmless" means that you don't stand on street corners asking passer-by women to remove their shoes so that you might covet their feet, right there, on the spot....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 June 2012):
you are the way you are because that's how you are...
it does not make you a bad person or a pervert..
btw if you can't have sexual relations without the fetish object that's the concern... if it's just something you like that turns you on, well then that's just a preference.
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reader, adoresdior +, writes (27 June 2012):
Feet fetishes or any fetish for that matter is actually a type of odc. A lot if people think ocd is just having things a particular way or they are super clean but theres actually different types of ocd. O stands for obsessive and C is for compulsions. Obesseive are thoughts and compulsions are actions. So this would be a type of obsessive thought that turn into something that turns you on. Many people who have ocd or any mental disorder for that matter is actually learned or developed. Whether it be from a childhood experience or something that you develOped over time. If it really bothers or really curious to know more about fetishes you should prob see something of therapist, they could really help you know so much more about it.
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