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writes:Hey, I have known this guy for a couple of years now and we always have got along and flirt lots etc but he now has a girlfriend and he still flirts with me all the time and his friends always hint that he likes me. the other day one of his friends texted his girlfriend (who i live with) saying that the guy i like is breaking up with his girlfriend and that we need to get together, but he never broke up with her. I know i need to get over him but i can't help have a little hope when he always acts like he likes me and people always tell me he does. How do i get over him, or should i wait and hope he breaks up with his girlfriend considering they're on the rocks. I really do like this boy but its hurting me and i dont seem to be able to get over it xx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 June 2012):
 No you should not just wait about for him. At the end of the day he is with this girl, even if they are having problems they are still together. I know that it must be hard on you to watch but I think you just need to accept that he is with someone else. If he flirts with you in the future just ignore him, if he asks why you are not responding tell him you do not feel it is right him flirting with you when he has a girlfriend.
Some people are just naturally flirty. So do not automatically assume he looks at you in a romantic way, he might just like you as a friend who he can flirt with. Don't always listen to other people either, if he has not told you himself he likes you then do not listen to it second hand. It is time to move on from him and look for someone else. Good luck.
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reader, ImmortalPrincess  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 You should not sit and wait for him to end a relationship, Just because they are having trouble, does not mean they aren't attempting to work out their issues. You also should not, in any way, interfere with them working on their relationship. IE, flirting with him, letting him know you like him, that sort of thing. You would not appreciate that being done to you, if you were in his girlfriend's shoes.
The bottom line is, he is NOT available, so move one.
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