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writes:Sometimes when i think about my relationship i feel like im the luckiest girl order times it's like my bf's playing with my feelings. it all because he has never been jealous even when i chat with guys he's just curious to know them. im saying this because in his previous relationship he never wanted his ex to mingle with guys and even warned guys who wanted to flirt with his ex but mine is the opposite of it. Iv constantly been asking him if he loves me and says 'yes' always. Does he really love me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2012): It sounds like there is a reason she is his ex...he didn't trust her around other guys like he trusts you not to betray him.
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reader, anonymous12345150 +, writes (27 June 2012):
the fact that he's not jealous is great,when a guy is jealous it is insecurity not love and passion,he's probably learned that being like that in his previous relationship didn't work out to well and doesn't want to make the same mistakes.make sense?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2012): well i beleve i am over qualified for this answer. i am pretty much the same as your boyfriend. im honestly just not a jelious person anymore. but i can still get upset about things.
the fact that he doesnt get mad means he trust you, at least thats wat i think. he isnt trying to fight or get mad over things that arnt worth fighting over like my bitch of a girlfriend. yes i would say he loves you. based off of your few sentences. if he doesnt get mad or care about anything you do at all and you to never have a disagreement then you might have alittle to worrie about. but i think it means he is just a big boy now.
i wouldnt worrie unless you think he is hiding something but dont start looking. people see what they want to see not what is actually there sometimes
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reader, ImmortalPrincess  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Jealousy is not an indication of love. Perhaps in his previous relationship he had some insecurity and self esteem issues. Maybe he has worked though them, and feels very comfortable with you.
He obviously trusts you, and believe me, that is what you want from him, not jealousy.
He says he loves you, and has given you no real reason to doubt him.
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