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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: Dear readers,I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16 we have been going out about 3 months i have already met his parents and been his house plenty of times.My mother keeps asking me why not bring him back to our house for a while i just keep saying yeah i will but i never do and the reason is because... well i ask him if he wants to come back to mine but he keeps saying im afraid of what your parents will think of me and i tell him that they will like you they dont mind as long as im happy he also gets mad at me for it and i just back down and say sorry but i tell him that im not forcing him and all. Today i asked him if he would want to come over and i said that i just have to clean the car and room but he can still come over but he just never text me back so it was like he was trying to avoid it and new that if it gets to late he wont be able to come over he was even online on fb and i text him just in case he didnt see the message on his phone but he didnt even text me back on that what do i do??? im so confused right now,thanks.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (30 June 2012):
Is he shy? If you have met his family then I am pretty sure he does like you and wants to be with you. But my guess is that he is scared of meeting your parents, possibly because he is older than you and he is scared about how they will feel about him.
Explain to him that it is important to you that he meets them and see what he has to say. Tell him that he needs to give it a try for you to see how it goes. Explain that your parents want to meet him if he is dating you.
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