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writes:well it seems i got a small problem . this guy i had been talking to has decided to contact me again . he decided that he an his son didn't want him to date anyone so i ask him what did he want to do an he said i guess say good bye , his wife died about a year ago .when we meet an talk we hit it off really well an i thought it was going to be ok an thing were going good until he told me about his sons . so now he has contact me again an i try to talk with him an he did for a little while . so this morning i left him a message saying if he wnted to talk with me he knew how to get in contact with me . he came back with i don't have time to go into all that . when he decided to end us talking any more i ask him why . he said he was talking with his wife friend an he use to date her . i ask him about this an he then said all of them were married . so now i am here again where i thought it was ending .so any help will be greatly appericate for i don't know if he is just messing with me or not . so i have decided i am going to give him 5 days to talk with me then i am blocking him an through with it . so confuse with him i really like this guy he never got out of the way an try anything with me . please help cause i am so lost on this one Reply to this Question
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reader, forever58 +, writes (2 July 2012):
forever58 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalready did this i block him from ever contact me . an i have move away from this the very next day . thanks for all the help an advice .
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 June 2012):
 I think the best thing to do is to move on from this. It is clear he is not serious about you, as if he was he would explain that to his son and tell him his love life is his business. It is probably nothing personal to you, my guess is that he is probably not fully over his wife yet and therefore he might just not be ready to date anybody else yet. Move forward and find someone else.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 He doesnt seem interested if he's talking about his wife's friend , and if he really liked you he'd make more of an effort.
I know you like him but love's a two way thing; if he's not making much effort; its best to drop it.
Goodluck!
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