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writes:Please MEN (and ladies) help answer this:My BF broke up with me in Nov said he was "talking" to a girl havent met up yet or anything...2 ks later begs to come back to the relationship w me exclusively says the breakup was NEVER related to another girl and they never ever went out just talked on the phone. fast forward now she has never ever ever "liked" or commetned on his fb.. and jst two wks ago I caught him in a lie having to do with meeting up with a female friend for coffee...anyways this girl who he almost went on a date with when we broke up mind you has not been a long time friend of his liked a comment on FB about the Yankees..I was irate..he called it petty after all we went thru with the other friend situation ..I just told him I was disturbed by the timing of her liking a comment...I feel as if he SHOULD NOT have her as a FB friend as they arent friends they were almost a daters..lol so I feel like he should delete her and cease ALL communication with her.. MEN WHAT YA THINK? is that unreasonable..silly..petty?Thank you all kindly
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reader, demeplev +, writes (25 June 2012):
demeplev is verified as being by the original poster of the question You guys are awesome, thanks, I feel like this awesome relationship may not be exactly what Im looking for...I am sad. But deeply thank you guys!..I am still hoping for some male responses as well.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (25 June 2012):
 I think you're right. He either is with you, or he isn't. It's profane to a relationship to keep his options open like that, and any female friend who is or was either an ex or a former romantic interest is disqualified from being a platonic friend.
He should delete her. But you have bigger issues than whether or not he should delete her. If he's lying about meeting with women, and he's getting stubborn about keeping options open, then he's not as into your relationship as you are.
How would he feel if after you both got together, you kept your options open, kept guys who wanted to sleep with you in your friend's list, and lied to him about meeting with other men? He wouldn't like it.
I think, given your on-again-off-again relationship and the fact that he's keeping his options open, which means a vote of no confidence in your relationship, you might want to end this one and move on, rather than wonder over and over and eventually get left by him anyways.
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reader, demeplev +, writes (25 June 2012):
demeplev is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I didnt ask because I feel it should be obvious and done by his own accord otherwise whats to stop him from contacting her outside of FB? I wanted to say it but feel like this should be a no brainer for 44 yr old man who is very intelligent...NO?
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reader, ImmortalPrincess +, writes (25 June 2012):
 If I got upset every time my husband "liked" or commented on something on another womans facebook page, or they "liked" or commented about something on his page, I would be in a constant state of MAD. Same with me, I like and make comments to things on other mens pages all the time, and they with me. It's no different then agreeing with, or making a comment about something someone does or says in the real world. It's not like she's commenting on his pictures and tel;ling him how sexy he is, or posting inappropriately on his page, she "liked" a post about the Yankees......I mean come on.....really????I know you don't want to hear this, but YES, I think you're being petty, and petty is a VERY good way to destroy a relationship.Pay less attention to what's going on on facebook, and more attention to what's going on in the real world.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (25 June 2012):
 Facebook strikes again!!!!
Did you ask him to take her off? He knows her presence upset you before, don't think it's unreasonable to ask him.
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