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*estiny1985
writes:I'm not sure what you ar egoing too think.Well long story short i met this guy when I was 19 we clicked straight away and stayed with each other till the end of the night and exchanged numbers he called straight away next day and we dated for over a month then it ended cause we both was really too young for a relationship so we went our seperate ways.1 year later i'm at a local business and this guy has me pinned upmn against a wall, so he comes over and pulls me away. We start chatting for ages and he said he wants us to be friends but friends who kiss lol so we exchange numbers again and are close chat lots.A year later i just get out of a relationship and I phoned him. So he came to me and took me too the cinema and straight away bang theres very strong feelings and we both feel it too cant explain it but there was a strong connection. After that night i didn't hear from him in over a year then we met again in same local business place as abov. He asked for us too start fresh in a full term relationship of course the answer was yes.He was amazing to me and the best person i've ever been with but sadly i messed up cause towards the end of that he asked me why i didnt take his number?Then out of nowhere i said because i didnt know whether i could trust you.Grr just couldnt control it. Couldn't stop myself from saying it. now its been over four years since i last saw or heard from him and its been so hard.So much has happened and i just cant stop thinking about him.He's on my mind all the time and i feel a part of me is missing dont know what too do the truth is is there a chance that after so many years an ex can get back if its right have there been cases of exes getting back after 5 years or more. please help
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reader, destiny1985 +, writes (25 June 2012):
destiny1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I can definately see what you mean and i have tried too move on i've been in quite a few relationships since him and none of them were the same my feelings for them were no where near as strong. Also I go too a circle on fridays and explained too the medium in charge all about what happened and he seems too think that me and this guy are supposed too be together when the timings right and too be honest thats what I think will happen.
I'll still try going out with other guys though but I just dont think I will ever feel as strongly for anyone else as I did for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2012): Its hard to say what he's thinking, but after 4 years he has probably moved on. No harm tying to find out via other people because he meant so much. Sometimes we have to accept the one who got away, that it wasn't meant to be.As he split after one silly thing you said was a bit dramatic in his reaction he was maybe looking for a way out anyway.
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