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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I posted on here recently about when i was in a pub with my boyfriend , and we saw my ex, and my boyfriend got jealous. The title of my post about my problem was " Three's not company, my boyfriend and my ex ". I had a phone call from my ex yesterday, out of the blue . I missed the call as my phone was off. I was out and the battery on my phone was dead. He left a message saying it was him calling, and that he would call later. I haven't heard from him again yet, but i'm wondering whether to send him a text message or phone him ?. The number he called from wasn't the same number that he had when i went out with him, so i'm not sure if he has a new number, or if he borrowed someone elses phone to call me. If i text him, do you think i should just ask if that is his new number, and then take it from there?. I'm too nervous to call because it might not be his phone, and because i am nervous about calling him first, although, i don't mind speaking to him on the phone if he calls me . Should i tell him why i missed his phone call yesterday, and if he asks me to meet him in town, do you think i should go ?. If my boyfriend finds out i have been speaking to him though, he will be really angry. The thing is, i'm not sure whether to stay with my boyfriend or not, as we have had some problems lately ( not just about my ex though ). Any advice would be much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2012): Maybe you should address the problems with your boyfriend first as you dont sound very happy with him. If you dont want to be with him anymore, trying dealing with that first. I know sometimes when things arent good it is easy to look to the past and find old ex`s comforting. But this ex couldnt have been right for you either, otherwise you would still be with him. So it might be a case of jumping from the pan into the fire if you arent careful. I would put the ex on hold and deal with the present boyfriend, give yourself a little space to decide what it is you want before making any decisions about rekindling contact with your ex. It might be, you are better off without both of them. Give yourself space to decide x
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (17 June 2012):
 HI
ALARM BELLS ARE RINGING HERE!!!, your ex is an ex for a reason, weather it was your reason or his, he knows you are with someone so why cause problems for you by phoning you? it sounds like to me he see's you out with another guy and is just cheesed that its not with him, and if you were to split with your guy now he wouldn't want to know because there is no excitment there for him to chase. If your not happy with your current bf end it with him before you decide to go elsewhere, because your right, if your bf finds out about the call and message it will only cause heartache and rows thats can be avoided. Its not worth stirring up old emotions just because things are not going right at the moment, your bf got jealous because he can sense your ex trying to flirt and he cares for you. do you not think you can resolve your problems your having with him? either way I STRONGLY advise you NOT to get intouch with your ex UNLESS you are a free woman to do so.
Mandy x
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