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writes:Having sex for the first time does it hurt ? Is it suppose to hurt ? I just wanna know what to expect when I have sex for the first time Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2012): It didnt hurt for me but we took it slow, i didnt bleed either. Not quite sure what happened but it was okay, i didnt orgasm or anything though.
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reader, daletom +, writes (17 June 2012):
This is a common question.
One recent thread (with lots of advice) is "Is there a way to break my hymen without pain?" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-there-a-way-to-break-my-hymen.html
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reader, person12345 +, writes (17 June 2012):
 The main reason it hurts is when the woman isn't physically ready, meaning not turned on enough. The best way to avoid pain is to make sure that your partner can give you enough foreplay to get you all the way to orgasm before trying sex. Be sure you can reliably get there or at least almost there. Then you can be sure that you are turned on enough.
Sex doesn't hurt because you're tearing or stretching something or something else like that, it's just because when you're not turned on it's like sandpaper. When you get turned on your vagina expands a LOT and lubricates and it shouldn't feel painful at all to insert a penis. Especially if you put lube on the tip of the outside of the condom (which I promise you will help a LOT, everyone should have lube around when they have sex). You should always use a condom as well.
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reader, 6677  +, writes (17 June 2012):
From what I hear it does hurt although I am not female and couldn't tell you how much.
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reader, here-to-hear  +, writes (17 June 2012):
Hey,
It's different for all women. It can hurt a little, be mildly uncomfortable or not hurt at all.
There are things you and your partner can do to reduce the chances of pain.
Make sure you're comfortable with your partner and your body will relax a little more, less tension will help things open up. Lots of foreplay insures that you're naturally lubricated and this will make penetration easier and more comfortable, if you still find yourself dry then you can use lubrication or (some people won't like this idea) spit to start things off. Ask your partner to kiss you throughout, whether it be on the lips, on the neck or some people like nibbling on the ear, this will give you another sensation to concentrate on.
If you want any more information or advice you can PM me here.
Try to relax :D
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reader, simplely me +, writes (17 June 2012):
 it does hurt the frist time you have sex but it doesnt last long and every girls experiance is differnt . so talk to your partner and explain your fears and concerns . that away you can work out a more comfertable way
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