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writes:okay me and my guy have been together for 5 years now. and our begaining wasnt the greastest . lets just say we end up togther even though we were with others but now he tells me about all this guilt he has so about it . so my question is should i set him free so hes not in pain and full of gult ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (17 June 2012):
 HI
Its sounds like to me he has had his cake an eaten it, now the novelty has worn off he acts like he feels guilt, I would definately let him go, and what kind of relationship can you really have when you both cheated to be with eachother? there will always be guilt, and lack of trust.
Mandy x
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reader, Discovery  +, writes (17 June 2012):
Yeah, I'd start over. If both of you were in the habit of cheating around, that's really not something that can be easily forgotten or forgiven both ways.
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reader, Sammia +, writes (17 June 2012):
If you were both with other people to start with and have been open and honest and it has not happened again I don't see why he has guilt. If you love each other then work through it. Talking can help be honest about how you both feel. Some times men just need a little reassurance. If you truly forgive him let him know and he will get passed it.
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