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She avoids being alone with me. But does she have feelings for me?

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Question - (17 June 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2012)
A male South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been pursuing her for 3 months now. During that period, we've been out couple of times, we often kissed, have great conversations on the phone but she won't tell me how she feels about me and she avoids being alone with me at my place.

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A female reader, Dear Mandy United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2012):

Dear Mandy agony auntHI

maybe she likes your company, but just as a friend but dont want to offend you or loose your friendship. why dont you back off for a bit and see if she comes to you. being to eager can also be off putting.

Mandy x

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A female reader, Sammia United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2012):

There could be a number of reasons she doesn't want to be alone with you yet. She might not know how she feels about you herself. Give her time, just keep talking and going out. If its meant to be it will happen have patience.

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A female reader, BondGirl72 United States +, writes (17 June 2012):

BondGirl72 agony auntThree months of dating is a little early for a girl/woman to decide that you are the man she wants. If she continues to want to see you and acts like she likes you (apparently she does if you have kissed), continue on that path and take your time. She may not want to be alone with you at your place because some women do not like putting themselves in vulnerable positions. Once again, for some, three months is a little early for a lot of intimacy (which is where being alone at your place could lead). Don't ruin what you have built so far by wanting things faster than she does. Enjoy your time together and if you are meant to be together...you will be.

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