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writes:So I'm in my 20s and I haven't had sex in 2 years. Then this girl I haven't talked to in awhile wants to have sex with me. She's fat, smelly and has an ugly face and yet I still had sex with her. I did not enjoy it, I just sat there letting her do all the work because I realized it was too late to say no. I felt disgusted with myself after and I almost threw up twice.How can I get over this, prevent this from happening again and will this ever happen again if I don't have sex for more than 6 months?[Mod note: this question is being closed as there has been no followup from the poster and there are negative answers being submitted. If the poster wishes to receive advice on this, please submit a new question, which will indicate that the poster has indeed read the answers submitted. To those of you who wish to provide answers, the site guidelines may be found here: http://www.dearcupid.org/pages/answer-guidelines.html ] Reply to this Question
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (18 June 2012):
 I'm not sure if this is someone trolling or not, but if it isn't... I'd say she was the unlucky one in this situation, not you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2012): it's ok, consider her to have been a "sports fuck". and your reputation will remain intact.
there was (and still is) a band who tired of groupies and so embarked on a competition to see which band member could get the ugliest groupie.
tell yourself it was merely an excuse to try fat and to try ugly. tick 'em off your list and at least you didn't have to pay.
however, she probably does have feelings and stuff so tread lightly.
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reader, braden +, writes (18 June 2012):
Guys like you are the reason girls think guys are a**holes. First off I'm sure you are not the best looking guy in the world either so have some respect for her. You shouldn't have sex if you didn't care about her. Sex is something girl (and some guys) actually carry emotions with. By saying yes to this girl you could have seriously messed with her head.
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reader, Discovery +, writes (17 June 2012):
Well... that was a bit funny, sorry. Anyhow, I haven't had any for 24 years - and I'm 24 now :P. It's quite okay if you just don't have it. The temptation gets really damn strong sometimes but I'm still alive despite not falling for it @ at any random opportunity.
You make it sound like what happened was an automatic, accident. No, it was your decision. And you can either make the same decision again or choose not to.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (17 June 2012):
 Ever heard of masturbation? Learn to do it if you haven't. How can you get over it? Learn to keep your pants on.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (17 June 2012):
 For God's sake. Could you be any more rude about this girl? She didn't force you to do anything. I don't feel sorry for you, I feel sorry for her. I very much doubt that she got any enjoyment out of the encounter either, with you just sitting there passively.
How can you prevent it happening in the future? - grow some balls and say a polite "no" if you find someone so disgusting.
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