A
female
age
30-35,
*herrybomb13
writes:My ex just officially ended it last week, he has a new gf. he didnt cheat because we were taking a break, i dont know why. he kept changing the reasons. The new girl is fat (not that looks matter i guess) who dyes her hair a lot, plays video games, and parties a lot. Hes a quiet introverted skateboarder and Im an apprenticing tattoo artist, also an introvert. For a while he kept saying i should keep my options open and i deserve better than him, but i kept saying i loved him and i know what i want. we hung out last sunday (he had a gf but i didnt know) and he kept texting someone and wouldnt give me a real hug. He kept staring at me and we sat super close,my leg was all on his. I asked if he had a gf he said no. Then two days later i found out he did. He was flirting with me weeks before and talking to me 24/7, so it shocked me. Hes already told this girl he loved her and he treats her better than he treated me. Hes 19 and shes 18, he has no life plan and idk about her. Will they even last? What can i do?
View related questions:
a break, flirt, tattoo, text, video games Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 June 2012):
 We'd need a crystal ball to answer you properly, anyway : why not. Maybe they'll last. It's not written anywhere that fat girls who dye their hair can't be good gfs, or that introverts should only date other introverts. Or that two people must only have matching interests to last. If it ends soon, or if it ends at all, it won't be because he is a skater and she is a videogamer, but just because they are 19 and 18 and at this age a rather frequent turnover in love interests is pretty normal.
What you can do ,is moving on. The " you deserve better than me " line that he was feeding you since a while was /is a clear indication that he was ready for someone new- plus he's a bit of a player if he is flirting with you and denying the new gf. All in all, staying away from him altogether is your best option.
A
female
reader, Cherrybomb13 +, writes (18 June 2012):
Cherrybomb13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm simply asking if theyll work out?
...............................
A
female
reader, simplely me  +, writes (17 June 2012):
 okay hunny im going to tell you some thing that may hurt but let him go . seriously let him go . or at lest ask yourself do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a person like that . your what in your teens . the problem with boys that age is they cant help themselves . really they cant . and it sounds like this on wont be ready for a long time he still trying to be 13 . why dont you work on yourself for awhile and get your future started trust me you do that get to know and start your future and soon enough a MAN will come along
...............................
|
