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writes:ok whats wrong with me ? this guy i have meet an i think we hit it off . but he keep wanting me to come over to his apartment i told him no i didn't think this was a good idea . then he says i am scared well yes i am . an now i am trying to keep thing for myself in control of the situation an i told him this . an he says i am scared which i am cause when things get out of control an i do thing with them i never hear from them again . so now i am trying to do thing different now . i told him i would meet him halfway an he said he better stay at home .but he always im me on sunday an sometimes he talk to me dureing the week . so what am i doing wrong . it seem if i do or don't thing go wrong they say i am scared but i have been hurt an know it can happen again an not willing to go along with them saying I won't do that to you . so any advice about my problem will be greatly appericate .he also said if he meet me we would just get into a fuss he keep saying i am scared an don't want to get hurt . Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (17 June 2012):
 HI
this guy sounds like he just wants to have fun with you , I would not go to his house. Why dont you just date people with just friendship in mind nothing more, and let things develop in there own time. Most guys will say i wont hurt you, but words are easy to say, you will know the right man for you, when he dont pressure you into going to his house, and they dont say they wont hurt you they proove it in the way he will treat and respect you.
Mandy x
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (17 June 2012):
 You are not doing anything wrong. If he is so interested in you, he should be asking to take you on a proper dates, not asking you to come to his apartment. When I was dating, I didn't even allow a man to visit/pick me up at my apartment until I could trust who he was. I always had him meet me at a restaurant, etc. If he doesn't have the money to take you on a proper date, then I would tell him you are not interested. I think it is good that you will not go to a guy's apartment and you have standards.
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