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*Dazzling
writes:I've gotten closer to this guy over the last few months.He asked me to go to the ball with him but before that I said "Can two people go to the ball as just friends?"and he says"Oh.Well that's even better."???I have once before dated a guy who turned out to be a player so I'm more guarded now. There were warning signs with my player-ex but this guy does seem trustworthy.Ever since the day I was sick and didn't go to school, he asked if everything's alright and after I told him I was sick he said "Aww well just imagine me giving you a hug" and ever since then, he's been hugging me. He may tease other friends of his that are girls, but I don't see him hugging other girls a lot like he does for me, e.g. coming up behind me and hugging my shoulders/giving a long hug when he hasn't gotten the chance to. In fact one girl tried to hug him and he didn't reciprocate. But who knows. We're always talking for hours nearly everyday. He's invited me over to his house to meet his family and they're all nice people just like him.Yesterday I was shivering when I was with him and he gave me his jacket, and I kinda huddled close to him to keep warm, like jokingly, and I don't know how to explain it but he tried to keep me warm with his arms.We've gotten quite close and he says I can "share everything with him" if I want to. Is that a good thing? Apparently I'm the only girl he texts everyday. I've heard that line before.. but he does seem like an honest good guy.The ball is in a month and we're going together. I didn't like him in that way back when I suggested going to the ball as friends, damnit. D: I'm too scared to ask to go as a couple cause I'm afraid he only sees me as a friend. What should I do?
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reader, curious1987  +, writes (17 June 2012):
 Lifes too short to waste time with what ifa and what abouta. if u wana go as a date just tell him. it sounds to me like he likes u too. bite the bullet tell hin how u feel. Befor u miss the chance. :-)
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (17 June 2012):
 That's a good question. It sounds like he likes you a lot. But whether or not he loves you is another issue. I don't know what advice to give here. Unfortunately, the only way to find out is to take the first step and talk to him about it.
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