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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my fiance for about a year now,but have known her since we were little. I have been obsessing about her last "live in" boyfriend that she had been with for 2 years. Here's the kicker that makes it difficult... He played football for the NFL and is black.. I looked up pics on FB and obviously the guy was built... The thought of him having sex with her makes my blood curdle... I wish now that i hadn't been so damn nosey in finding out the details. Anyhow, she says the relationship was horrible and that she has never been in love with any1 like with me before. Ive talked with her about this and she says that she loves "ME" and that he is the past. My question is, how the hell do I stop obsessing about a black 200lb ripped NFL player having sex with the love of my life over and over again?? Btw, she said she was prepared to move away with him b4 she had gotten with me... Advice,please....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 July 2012):
 You need to get over it. Okay so he was well built and fit, but hey looks are not what is important to women. He may have been a terrible boyfriend to her, however am not sure its the fact that she may have loved him that bothers you its the fact that you picture them both having fantastic sex just because of his build and it bothers you as you feel it may have been better than it is with you. You need to let this go, you are the one that she has chosen to be with, therefore you need to accept that and get over this before it ruins the relationship. Accept that she loves you and wants to be with you.
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