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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I’m so confused. I met this amazing girl at school in the fall semester of last year and we hit it off pretty easily. We started spending time alone together and eventually had sex. We spent most of the day after that cuddling on the couch watching a couple movies. I figured things were going in the right direction, but for some reason or another she disappeared after that. We would text now and then but that seemed to be it. I stated to think that it might have meant more to me than it did to her. Long story short we ended up reconnecting during spring semester. After talking about things she says that she really was interested but she thought I was mad at her for not talking to me. I tell her that it was a little frustrating but I really like her and am still interested. Now here’s where things start to suck… She’s from five hours away out of state and had talked about transferring to a college back home. (Ok, not a deal breaker.) She also tells me she has been seeing someone back home. The rest of the time we spend together she keeps saying that she wished things had turned out different and that she really does like me. We end up cuddling in her bed for a while and she kept asking why I’m so nice to her. Fast forward to yesterday when she messages me on Facebook. We do some catching up and she seems to be flirting with me. She tells me she is really kicking herself for not seeing me when she was in town a few days ago. We continue talking and she says that I should come visit her. As far as I know she’s still with the same guy or at least that’s what it looks like on Facebook. I don’t know what to think about this.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 July 2012):
 If I am honest with you I think you should stay clear from her, she sounds trouble to me. You hooked up with her before and afterwards she started ignoring you for no reason. It is great you both reconnected, but if she is seeing another guy back at home and plans to move back there, do you really think anything serious could happen between the both of you? I mean sure she might like you and enjoys spending time with you, but I don't think she looks at you as a potential boyfriend I think it is more like someone to meet up with and maybe have fun with, maybe because there is distance between you both, who knows. But if she is involved with another man then I suggest that you stay well out of it, so you do not end up getting hurt.
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