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I'm not sure how to handle this new revelation about my husband.

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Question - (23 July 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Am i wrong?

Ive got this problem, my husband and i have always been very sexually adventrous, mutual masturbation, threesomes, anal, you name it we have done it. But recently my husband as told me, he thinks he might be bi-sexual, and wants me to watch him have sex with another guy, ok, no problem, but then he said he wants to dress up in my clothes/underwear, use my make up, then have this man take him to another level. Im a lil' confused! Is he bi-sexual or a transvestite? And having looked back, he has worn my underwear before, when we was having sex, and he even bought me a wig, which when i get home from work as sumtimes moved, some underwear as had stains in them too, but they are in the clean linen draw....help, please.....

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (24 July 2012):

Honeypie agony auntYou say that you both have been very adventurous, and that is fine. But I assume (and I could be wrong) that it's always been something you BOTH wanted to do?

This is not about you at all. This is HIS 100% fantasy. He is "being you" ? perhaps? I have to say I would not be comfortable with it, but then again I don't believe in adding more people to a marriage or the bedroom.

Talk to him.

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