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male
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30-35,
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writes:Back in March, I started to pursue my crush on my friends sister after she initiated contact with me. She asked me to take her fishing and she said yes. My friend then told me that she told him that we were going fishing and that I was going to be her boyfriend. I was siked. Then she said she had something she had to do the day we were going to go fishing. Ever since then I talked to her in school a lot and I thought everything was going good. She became busy with sports and didnt have a lot of time between school and sports. Then it started to fade, I couldn't even have a conversation with her. I talked to her about it and she said that I was her brothers friend and that she didn't want to be anything more than friends. Now when I see her, its like we were never friends and I am just her brothers friend. She doesn't start conversations with me anymore. She knows that I still want to be friends with her because she is a great person. She is always the first one to say hi though when I see her and we do still have those moments of eye contact with a smile.How do I get over her? Its not like I can cut her off forever because she is my friends sister and I see her when I am over his house sometimes and it is hard because she is so beautiful and I am not going to stop seeing my friend over this. If it is taking me so long, does this mean that I was actually in love with her? This event kind of confused me yesterday: I was sitting on the couch close to her yesterday with her friend on the other side. Her friend moved pillows from behind herself and put them between me and my crush and said "I have to separate you two". My crush then threw the pillows on another chair. This kind of sounds like the friend doesn't want her to date me.She never initiates a text or phone call with me anymore and she doesn't really talk to me when i'm around.Is there any hope there for me? Do you think she likes me but can't do anything about it because of my friend? How do I get over her if there is nothing there. I still want to be at least friends.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 July 2012):
 Could it be possible that her brother (your friend) may have said to her that he was not comfortable with the idea off you and her dating. Have you spoke to your friend about this? If not I think you should. Tell him how you feel and see what he has to say to it. It sounds like she does like you, and her friend saying this indicates that she need to keep you apart for a reason, my guess is that reason is her brother. Maybe he does not want his sister taking you away as his friend, or he may feel awkward if you two got together and then fell out. I think you should talk to him about it and if he is happy with the idea, then I think you should tell his sister that and ask her out on a date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2012): U shouldn't go out with her in case it affects your relationship with her brother. But if your sure u won't ruin anything just keep trying. I think she likes u a little.
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