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writes: I have been with my girl for about 7 months now. She cheated on me around april of 2012 with my best friend. Now she is ating quite strange. She makes conversations short, always has to go, never tells me anything about why she had to go, stuff like that. Well is it bad that I still have trust issues and think she's cheating again? I mean I really love this girl so........ Its diffiult.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (23 July 2012):
 You don't have "trust issues" She cheated on you only a few months ago, with your best friend - why on earth would/ should you trust her?
She sounds toxic. Get yourself away for her pronto. You deserve so much better. Your best friend doesn't sound that great, either. Think about what you've put up with from these two and choose your friends and girlfriends more carefully.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2012): The question is why do you allow yourself to be treated like this?
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (23 July 2012):
 It sounds like she is cutting you out of her life whether she is cheating or not. Like the others have said, she has proved she can't be trusted, so I would not trust her now either. You deserve better.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 July 2012):
 This girl has already shown she can't be trusted, and a relationship without trust isn't going anywhere.
You have been dating her for only seven months, and four months in she cheated, and now she is acting secretively again. She doesn't care for your feelings, save yourself some heartache and break it off with her before she does any more damage.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2012): Cheating is appalling under any circumstances although some times people can work through it to have a stronger, healthier relationship. But not often. The person who does the cheating shows no respect or love for their partner and their partner loses all trust which is the bedrock for a relationship.
But there are two totally and utterly cast-iron rules you don't do. 1) Cheat with a member of your partner's family. 2) Cheat with your partner's best friend.
To take her back is foolish and dangerous and you should kick her to the curb now or you will face heartbreak again and again. And if you haven't already told your best friend where to go, you should do that to. Grow a pair.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (23 July 2012):
 Her behavior shows she has no remorse and spends no effort regaining your trust. You don't have to wait for concrete evidence of cheating. If you feel that the relationship is going nowhere you should end it.
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