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writes:Would it be considered a joke if a not very close friend texted you "Go f*** yourself, MWAH XOXO" and then waits til the next day to say it was just a joke or is that straight out bullying? :/What am I suppose to do? It feels like people are ganging up on me and b******* about me behind my back :/It happened yesterday, my group wanted to go out to eat but me and my other friend have already planned to go out to eat ages ago. We both said maybe, I was really hungry so we ended up going to the same restaurant as them and left without them. A few hours later they text me that "Go F*** yourself, MWAH XOXO" thing to me but not my friend. Now the person who sent it to me is saying it's just a joke and that they sent it to everyone, she said she didn't have the person who i was going with's number that's why she didn't receive a text. I texted someone else in the group who didn't go eat with them if she received one and she said yes but it feels like someone made her say all those things just to make it seem "okay". I don't know, I mean it's not even a joke and it really hurt my feelings :/ Am I just being paranoid or should I be worried?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all who took time out of their day to respond to this ! Everything has been sorted out, nothing to worry about :) Karlos5021 Yeah, a lot people's sense of humour are quite degrading from my perspective now a days. I'm quite an emotional person so I guess I took the comment a little too seriously, nothing to be worried about :)Have a nice day :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012): Some people have strange sense's of humour and forget not everybody shares the same humour as them.
It is possible she was on a hype and just randomly came up with it to send to everyone.
I see it a lot on facebook and bbm when one person will refer to their best friend as "Slag or slut" etc and they have a bit of banter.
If she's not fallen out with you then I'd say its just a joke and nothing serious.
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reader, feather20  +, writes (11 July 2012):
I had a friend who did this kind of thing to me and they turned out to be a VERY mean person indeed. If your instinct is telling you that this person was hurtful to you, trust that instinct. It's not being paranoid, don't let people mistreat you or be mistreated by others. Good luck.
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reader, IamJess +, writes (11 July 2012):
 It just seems like they want to be bitchy because you chose to do something without them and then leave without then, its jealousy really, and trust me the whole "MWAH XOXO" thing is sarcastic, whether they meant it as a joke or not, doesn't seem like a nice person because you wanted to do something differently.Personally, they should go **** themselves, treating someone like that isn't nice its just harsh, they just wanted to make you feel like they was angry at you or something. Basically they are being a bitch.
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reader, Sakari2 +, writes (11 July 2012):
 Perhaps your thinking too much into it... I understand how you are suspicious, I wouldn't call you paranoid though! I know exactly how nasty young girls can be... The sender may be in a bit of a mood because of the situation but for now I would forget it... If similar things happen again I would turn around and say 'Is there a problem here?' This may not be classed as bullying but noone should ever feel put-down or paranoid! Just see how it goes, maybe even share your thoughts with a close friend?
Hope things turn out well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012): Why care? whether they do or not good for them, dont care about what others think, only way youll get true friends is not worrying about it and being yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012): " thats not really a joke and it really hurt my feelings" tell them that and maybe they wont do it again, if they do then they r not true friends
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