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writes:I keep breaking up with my boyfriend when I feel like I don't want to be with him, and sometimes I feel I'm only with him for the sake of himself. I love him a lot and I can't shake the feeling that I'll be lost without him, but I don't know if this is odd and that I should leave him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2012): Second the above.
You've broken up with him more than once.
Time to either stay or leave.
I wouldn't b e surprised if he is suffering much more than he may appear to let on.
Stop playing with him and get a dog for your sake and his. Let him go, otherwise you're just being a b*tch. No offense.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (11 July 2012):
It sounds like there’s very little keeping you in this relationship other than your fear of not being in the relationship. However, staying with some-one because it feels comfortable isn’t enough: the relationship cannot go anywhere, and every time you feel unhappy with something you’ll break it off. The best thing to do is to explain to your boyfriend that you think the relationship has run its course, wish him well and go your separate ways. An endless cycle of breaking up and getting back together will do nothing but cause a great deal more pain and suffering to you both than would simply breaking it off completely. It sounds like there isn’t anything to fight for so end it.
I wish you all the very best.
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