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writes:So there is this guy whom I met about four months ago. We met the first time at a bar and we both knew about each other but we had never met because our families are close so we had both heard a lot about each other. We started talking and we came up with the "wonderful" idea that we were going to be each others wingman/wingwoman and hook up each other with our friends. So the next time I was out I texted him and said I had brought a friend to hook him up with (this didn't end well because she wasn't up for it). Instead I hang out with him all night. Then we started to call each other and then hang out every time we were out drinking (which has been almost every weekend). And now we've actually become good friends. But lately I have been starting to develop different feelings for him. I think I might even be in love, or at least I have a crush on him. But we always said that we would never become anything (most of the times it has been me who has said this). And he says that he consider me as one of his "bros". But the thing is that I've never even met him while sober. So I don't even know if I really know this guy. Should I tell him about my feelings or would that just ruin it all?
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (11 July 2012):
 I think before changing your whole relationship you should probably meet him whilst sober, when your drunk lots of different emotions come out that you wouldn't normally feel, so whether its just because you've had a drink or something you need to figure that out.
If you do realize you do like him, then I don't see why you shouldn't tell him because if you don't you'll never know if something could actually happen and you'll always be thinking "what if" if he doesn't feel the same way, I suppose you can try to remain friends, it might affect it someway, but at least you tried.
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