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I'm having strange fantasies about my female friend....what does this mean?

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Question - (11 July 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2012)
A female South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Im gonna try to be as short as possible. To be honest i never thought i wud ever fall in love with a girl. Since my childhood ive always loved boys and never a girl. I just realised yesterday when this friend of mine (girl) came to my house party, wearing a top that showed so much of her clevage. It got me horny and i was shocked the way it made me feel. Now i dont know who i am anymore. Now im having this strange fantasies about her and her clevage. What can i do about this thoughts? Does this mean im a lesbian or a bisexual or this is just something that straight girls can experience?

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A female reader, MissTellAll United States +, writes (11 July 2012):

MissTellAll agony auntSexuality is a very grey area. You may be attracted to her, but you may not be attracted to all women. Or you may find that you are attracted to some other women. Don't fret over these labels of 'straight' or 'lesbian' or 'bisexual'. Just go with your gut.

And yes, this does happen to a lot of girls who identify as straight.

Hope this helped :)

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A female reader, IamJess United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2012):

IamJess agony auntI think this is just something everyone goes through once, discovering the opposite and the same sex.

It doesn't mean your a lesbian or bisexual, you just thought it was nice or something, you just need to relax and discover more into your sexuality before you think your something your not because of ONE thing that happened, your also very young so just take your time and I'm sure you'll figure it out.

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