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writes: I'm a male that's turning 23 years old this year. My girlfriend with whom I've been with for more than 12 months is the same age as me. I love her, she loves me and we're great for one another except one major thing - sex. I want it more than twice a week, she doesn't. After great sex, she says she wants it everyday but that's only because she feels good. She keeps complimenting me on our sex sessions (I bring her to O, make her shake etc, do my very best to please her). When we do have sex, it's really amazing for the both of us and I try to keep things fresh and interesting.My problem is that I want it way more than only twice a week. I tried talking with her and she usually blames me for wanting it a lot and that she won't do it if she doesn't feel like it. Now, don't get me wrong - there have been times when he she didn't feel like it, but step by step I got her in the mood. But that happened only 2 or 3 times because most times when I want it and she doesn't I get a No.I really care about her and I'm nice to her, generous (I bought her jewelry and many gifts), I helped her with school projects, offered my time, even when she didn't ask it but clearly needed it (because I love her not to "get sex out of it"). I compliment her, maker her feel beautiful, special, loved, make her laugh everyday, cheer her up when she's down and I all I want in return is a chance to get her in the mood so we can make love more often.I'm afraid that we'll probably end up like one of those couples which have sex less and less, once a week, than once every 2 weeks than once a month. I'd rather be single and not get any than be with the girl I love and get refused most of the times.When she refuses me I get very angry and hurt but I rarely show it. I never refused her (even when I didn't feel like it, I got in the mood).I talked with her over and over again but nothing ever gets done. She says she wants to spend her life with me and loves me to death but it's clear that she doesn't want to work on this.Could you please give me some suggestions?
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 Many women want sex less frequently than men, and it's likely no amount of effort or complaining to her will change this. The frequency may well decline even more, so if you're not happy about this, you have a difficult decision to make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo answers? I really need some help with this... :|
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