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writes:Dear Cubid Agonys! My boyfriend is going through a hard time with his family and exGF about us. And i feel sorry for him and he doesnt know what to do or have anyone to give advice.So i was think of introducing him to this DearCubid family it has been very helpful to me in so many ways.But i am scared he might not like it and of how he is gonna think of me about using this page all along? And is it not going to affect my privacy like i might post something about us in need of help then he is going to know right away its me... what must i do? please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (10 January 2012):
 As far as your boyfriend recognizing you? I think the Moderators are good at not putting through much that identifies other too much.
YOu would be surprised now many people the world over have problems that might sound similar, but are not. There are always nuances.And if you post anonymously the he will have trouble linking you to anything you post. There are now over quarter of a million questions on this site. And over a million answers.
If he goes looking he may find thousands of questions that "could be" you, but will not be you. Same with the asnwers.
Besides which from what I have seen there is often a delay between when a post is written and when it is sent through. It is likely that even a huge search would not find your posts.
Protect your privacy with all the hints DearCupid gives on the page when one first joins DearCupid.
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reader, Abella +, writes (10 January 2012):
Maybe suggest he read a few of the answers and questions that are similar to his own issues? Then if he thinks it might help him it will only take him moments to register.
It seems that you possibly post anonymously?
If you use a shared computer then at least respect each other's privacy as you ask what ever you need to ask and he asks whatever he wants to ask.
But better still if you each use your own phone to send through questions.
Whatever the case keep your own email and password just for you. Don't check the box "remember this password"
And change your passwords regularly.
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