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writes:Been involved in a love triangle for years. I been married for six years and is going through and divorce. (supposedly)We been separated two years. I have a daughter by my husband, and a child during the separation.My husband states he dont want the divorce he put doubts in my head the day before we appeared in court. problem is im with my current child father and we have a newborn. my husband stays with his girlfriend. he states he wants his family back. im confused dont know what i want to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012): To Benard the law doesn't give the biological father any rights if you are married unfortunately. They are trying to pass that law where father can have rights. It's starting to be quite common these days. Now no I cant handle it and I am slowly breaking down. My newborn father knows the situation and he want sme with him.My husband and I have a history and a daughter together. I just want to do the right thing what ever that is.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 January 2012):
 I detected FOUR participants in your arrangement... which makes it a love QUADRILATERAL.....
That said.... maybe the four of you can take a break for, say, six months.... and see if any/all of you can grow up during that time, and stop acting like high-schoolers.....
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012): Your husband does not "want his family back" if he's still with his girlfriend. Does she know he is telling you this?
he's just being selfish, treating people like commodities.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 Look there is obviously a very good reason why you and your husband split up in the first place. Think back to the split and ask yourself what happened in the marriage and why it happened. Ask yourself can it really be all fixed. You have moved on to another stage in your life now with a new baby and a new man. For me that would be the best option because your husband sounds unreliable. Why did the marriage break up? Whose idea was it? what is to stop it happening again? If you do not love your current partner then let him go because it is unfair and cruel to him. You need to figure out who you love and stick to that man. Good luck.
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