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writes:I never thought I would feel this way. My bf of a few years left me for someone else. I feel so betrayed and in so much pain. I've seen pictures and facebook post and they are so happy together. It devastates me because he didn't seem that happy when he was with me.my mind constantly races with questions and all these thoughts.i cant help but wonder if their new relationship will last?or if he will ever come back?i wouldn't take him back but just having that satisfaction of him wanting me back. basically if he will regret doing this this?he emailed me apologizing for everything he had ever done but it was meaningless to me.I was not a bad gf. I was loyal to him I was good to him treated him like any bf would want and still got this in return.I'm doing my best to keep my head up and move on with my life but i don't know what else to do. I want answers to questions but I doubt I'll ever get them. some advice or different point of view would really help and be appreciated!
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reader, malletchick76 +, writes (10 January 2012):
 I would suggest moving on, but the best way is to COMPLETELY eliminate him from your life. Delete his #, unfriend and block him on facebook. I say this because if you keep seeing his posts, it'll make u feel worse, and you might feel like making dumb mistakes by posting things so that he notices how "strong and happy you are without him".
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (10 January 2012):
 The bottom line is that he was with you when he was very young. People and their preferences change during the teenage years and early 20's (often times even later on in life). It has nothing to do with you, what you did or did not do in your relationships. Most relationships at your age don't last and progress to marriages. Statistically speaking, HS sweethearts and people who marry young have the highest divorce rate for this reason. I know you may not see it this way now, but you're just going through a very normal, natural cycle part of life. You may think that this sucks, but believe me, as you get older you will experience even shittier things than this.
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reader, Mariab  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 Hunny somethings no-one can explain them! As much as it hurts... you have to find a way to forgive him and let him go! Don't contact him, run after him, talk about the break-up with too many people (just obviously those realllly close to you). And try to get out there. Be seen to be moving on... Betrayal hurts sooo bad and I really feel for you. I would advise deleting him from your fb for a while until you are ok... don't go thru his pics and try to avoid all the things that take you back to him! You have to chin up... keep busy and do your best to smile through the tears... Good luck hunny! Don't blame yourself!!!! Never do that.... Dress your best and spend time with your girls xxxx
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