A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so me and this guy really like each other and we are pretty much dating but my mother does not like him at all. She really doesn't know him she judges his by his alcoholic mother who is also a drug addict. But he is nothing like that he got accepted for pre law in new York for college...please help me, how do I convince her that he isn't like his mother at all and we really like eachother
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 January 2012):
 you are 13-15
he got accepted to pre-law for college so he's 18??? or close to it?
how much time is he spending at your house?
what do you mean by dating?
as a mom I would not want my daughter dating an 18 yr old if she was 15... and I would NOT permit it at all if she was 13 or 14....
A
female
reader, Emily20  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 Ok,i will advise u to call your mom,when she is in a good mode,tell her you two need to talk,when you are ready to talk,tell how mush you love her,tell her that being a drug addict is not something,you inherited,it is a habit you learn,tell her that your guy can never be like the mother because thats not his habit,tell her how responsible your guy is,if possible tell her that his addicted mother has notting to do with your guy,that you two love each other,that she should go and do reseach on drinking,that drinking is something you choose to become you habit not sometin u inherit,that because your guy mom is a drug addict and a drunk,is what she choose,that your man is in the right track,that you promise her that if you notice any sign in your man she will be the first to know,give her hope and a reason to believe you,then see what happens goodluck.
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