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writes:I was going out with a guy for 6 months. during those 6 months my boyfriend use to text and call me and how so many cute and sweet things to me. but just a couple of months down are relationship he started to ignore me when text/call him for like weeks but then when he eventually started texting back I thought everything was fine. but it wasn't. then I we made the decision to break up in june even though I still liked him. but just a couple of months later he suddenly messaged me on Facebook to see how I was doing, after talking on their again he said can I text or call yu so I said fine. then one evening he text me asking how I was and etc, after talking about the common things he sent me a text saying r yu still single so I said yes I am what about yu he said so am I, then he said do yu still miss me I said I don't know really, where deep down I k ow I did but I didnt want to seem desperate. when I asked home the same question he said yeh then he went on to say let's get back together, I asked him will we work out this time he said yes course we will I'll make sure we do. I then said to him that am not sure I need time to think he said that's fine to him. know that I want to get back with him he stopped texting and calling me. bur when I texted him twice no reply even when I called him now I don't know what to do as I want to tell him how I feel but don't want to sound desperate! so could anyone help me. answers will be much appreciated thank you! :)
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 When a guy's all hot and cold, I'd say he's cold... i.e.he's not that keen
He liked the chase and he probably wanted to see if he could get you back. Since you've been talking to him and you're single he knows you probably want to get back together, and now he's just not that interested anymore.
I have one question for you. What do you think will happen if you get back together with him? Do you think he's going to be a changed man? He's already showing you that he can't be relied on (texts/calls) so, do you actually want a boyfriend like that?
For the time being, it might feel good to know that he wants you back. But what about after that? I seriously doubt that you'll have a nice relationship with this guy.
He's not answering your calls or texts...you can't do more than you've already done. Even if he doesn answer them, do you really want to get back together knowing what he's like? Think a bit more about what you really want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): He's treating you like a booty call or FWB and not like a GF. Ignore him and move on.
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