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26-29,
*andyCurves
writes:He's 17, I'm 16. We met last September at college and have instantly got on. For his birthday he invited me to his house with other (only male) friends.I met his dad. He always pops up on Facebook chat but usually we only discuss college work, but once he asked for my number.However, when I try to be affectionate, he blows cold. E.g, I'll say "night x" and he'll just put "soon". Or sometimes not right back at all. I'll ask him if he's going to the library and he'll just brush it off. The most meaningful thing he's said to me was when he was drunk where he called me his favourite girl in college.That's it. When he's sober he's called me "sick guy". Hence the title of this question. Am I just a friend? Few times Ive caught him staring at me . He seems to always smile at me in lesson for no reason. Constantly teases me but often takes it too far. But then there are days where its like there's nothing going on between us.I dont know what to think or do? Thanks
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reader, malletchick76  +, writes (10 January 2012):
 Just straight up ask him if he's attracted to you and interested in you. If not, then there are plenty out there :)
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reader, asyoulikeit  +, writes (10 January 2012):
Just so you know some guys are like that
they are shy and aren't affectionate and as forward like some guys are.
Rather than by his words judge him by his body language and actions.
He seems like he likes you but is maybe still wondering about it and a little shy to even admit it to himself. Perhaps he's resisting for whatever reason because he is afraid of rejection. Honestly wait it out and see what happens. Don't change the way you are with him, just keep being nice and try to bring up more personal topics besides college and work. Tease him and what not keep it lighthearted a slow transition might change things up.
He isn't intentionally blowing you off though i can assure that he is just shy and nervous probably.
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