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writes:I have this guy that I have known for like over three years. And he left for varsity, and the other night we saw each other like bumped into each other and kind of clicked. Anyway we exchanged number and 20 mins later he asked what I was doing the next day then asked casually asked if we could go to movies. I agreed and we went out for movies he cam back to my house and we sat and talked and swam and watched another mover there. But in-between he kissed me and it felt like it was my first tim kissing a guy.. It was so gentle and amazing. But he is leaving in a day or two but doesn't want to go. But I like him and scarred to tell him how I feel. We clicked instantly. I feel heart broken. I don't know if I should tell him. And I don't know if we will ever be more than just friends? Please help me Lost and confused
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reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (10 January 2012):
 Completely agree with Lexi. I''d just like to add this in addition to all the points she made: if you've known him for 3 years and he is just now asking you out (a few days before leaving) how interested do you really think he was in you?
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 Rule no. 1 - never tell a guy how you feel first. Most of the time this doesn't work in your favour.
This guy is leaving and might be looking for some last minute fun. Although I could be wrong here, you telling him how you feel, tips the balance of power his way and he could use it against you.
The fact of the matter is, he's leaving and even if you tell him how you feel, what do you think will happen. I can surely tell you that he won't suddenly change all his plans, declare his love to you and stick around. No, that won't happen.
You're very young...plenty of other guys will come your way. With this guy, accept that it's just bad timing and let it go.
Perhaps it's the best to remember the time you spent with him and if more is meant to happen in the future, it might.
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