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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi , i am 19 years old and I had 3 kids but my oldest son(6 years old) passed away. So I have a 2 year old son and a 7 month old daughter. And my daddy mother keeps bothering me and my family by calling DSS , cops , etc on us saying we live in a messy house , we abused our kids etc and which we don't ! I like my house to be clean all the time , we put our son in a timeout for 5 minutes when he be bad etc. The cops etc said everything fine! I have 2 nannies to watch my kids while me and bf goes to work ! My dad mother keep threaten me to take my kids away from us because A.) She hates me my mom and my bf ! She hates my mom because my mom and dad started dating and ish and she's also Cape Verdean Italian Puerto Rican and British and she can't stand my mom cus of that and she hates me because im NICE (i know stupid reason) she hates my bf because he with me and he's Jamaican and Black and SHE'S THE SAME RACE too !!!! We all try to be nice to her but she wants give us attitudes etc ! (SN: she hits my son and daughter and i tried to get her arrested but i didnt have no proof -_- and she tried to lie and say my bf molested our daughter and the doc said there NO evidences of molestation !!) My questions is:•why is she doing this to us?•what should we do?•should i tell my dad?•how can i talk to my dad mother without having any arguments ?Signed: anonymous Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): What people don't realize is that there are people that are deemed sociopaths. They like to cause others misery. They also do not feel guilt or remorse for any of their poor even destructive behaviours. Once the target you, it will be hell as they target those they envy. Its about vengenance. Why should you be happy when they can't be?
She does all of this because it stimulates her. She can't feel as others do. So the chaos is 'exciting' to her and entertaining to her. They don't feel happiness of fulfillment. It has everything to do with their BRAIN. Born that way.
It is estimated there are currently 300 million people like this on earth.
http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html
The Best thing you can do it is cut her out of your life and continue to live happily.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 January 2012):
 It IS illegal for her to file false claims of "child abuse" or "imprisonment" with CPS. CPS gets quite ticked off b/c people like her are wasting what little time and resources they have to help children who ARE being abused with their own personal vendettas.
http://www.dcf.state.fl.us/programs/...eporting.shtml
False Reporting Guidelines
Anyone reporting in good faith shall be immune from any civil or criminal liability. Any person who knowingly and willfully makes a false report or counsels another to make a false report is guilty of a felony of the third degree punishable by up to five years in prison. In addition, the department may impose a fine not to exceed $10,000 for each violation. Each time that a false report is made constitutes a separate violation. A false report is a report of child abuse, neglect or abandonment or adult abuse, neglect or exploitation that is made to the central abuse hotline which is not true and is maliciously made for the purpose of:
Harassing, embarrassing, or harming another person;
Personal financial gain for the reporting person;
Acquiring custody of a child or vulnerable adult; or
Personal benefit for the reporting person in any other private dispute involving a child or vulnerable adult
Section 39.205, Florida Statutes (F.S.) states what the department has to do concerning false reporting for children and Section 415.111, F.S. addresses with false reporting for adults.
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I don't know what State you live in but I would talk to CPS and see what can be done. You can use the link up top and seach YOUR state.
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