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*onfusedteen!
writes:Back summer I had a kinda serious relationship with a boy I'm 15 it was a big deal cos he was my first kiss and that,it lasted about 3 months I see him everyday in school and that we constantly text and talk during school times after we spilt up he got with another girl and stopped speaking he ended it he started speaking to me. I recently got with a boy but I have a weird gut feeling I still speak to the ex and i never had the chance to get over him the trust is still there and i tell him everything. With my current bf we kinda rushed it I still like my ex and have a weird feeling about this relationship I'm confused help?!
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reader, Confusedteen! +, writes (10 January 2012):
Confusedteen! is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know where your both coming from but I like my current boyfriend :/,Hm my friends have said to end it buy others have said to stop speaking to my ex but i don't want to do either my ex is like my boy best friend I'll leave it a few weeks and keep you guys updated thank you though I will think about ir
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reader, Beanscat  +, writes (10 January 2012):
It sounds like he realizes that he wants you back so now you have to make the decision of who to be with. You have to ask yourself who you have deeper feelings for and which relationship you see being able to become deep and meaningful. Whichever that is is the one you should go with. Just remember to take the time to think it through.
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reader, asyoulikeit  +, writes (10 January 2012):
i was in a similar situation when i was your age
to be honest its not fair to your CURRENT boyfriend
if you are not over your EX then do not add to the confusion by tagging your bf along trust me that hurts
you should end it as nicely as you can on good terms explain to him that you appreciate him but your feelings are still hung up on the ex
i know you might be scared and resistant to tell your ex how you feel
but muster the courage up and do it
whatever he says back will help you find a way out of your situation
if he turns you down you know you tried and that you can move on with time
and on the brighter side he might feel the same way
and you two can get back together and patch things up!
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