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writes:Gonna try make this short but please someone help me here or give me some insight.I like this guy and we talk and text alot and always flirt...I stayed over at his flat on friday night (no sex) and we talked for hours and watched movies and we have alot in common and I do really like him...oh and he invited me over and also invited me over on the thursday night which I was there too but only for a few hours as we were both working friday morning.We both went out on saturday night...first pub I went into he was there with his friends, we said hi and smiled and that was all really and then when he left he poked me on the sides and whispered seeya later and smiled.I then see him a few hours later in the nightclub and he is absolutely wasted. He was flirting with a couple of girls and I was like whatever and talked with people I know. But then when we talked face to face he was like I dont want to be a dick but Im actually looking for someone else right now (as in just to take home and sleep with and thats it) and I just said ok (I was hurt but what am I meant to say) and he looked soo shocked that I said that and I was like what? And he just stared at me and then this guy I know what like what you drinking, bought me a drink and then the guy I like was like no no no and Im like no what? And he looked soo pissed another guy bought me a drink and then he told me to come over and I did and then he kissed me and I pushed him and was like you said your looking for someone else remember so his hands went over his face and from then on out he looked a total and complete mess!!! sitting alone bend over hands over his face.Few hours later I was more drunk and ended up sending him a text saying I like him and that i dont 'put out' quickly because im not a slut and guys have no respect for girls who do and some other things then remembered I did that this morning and text him again to say please keep that between us and he text back eventually saying hes already shown it to everyone he knows and then quoted "im so vain" lyrics...showing me he is still drunk and most likely still drinking as I accidentally sent him a text earlier when I sent one to around 15 friends and told him to ignore it and he sent back ignore your face.My friend chatted with his friend last night as he asked how I know this guy so she said, and I said that I like him and his friend just said best she stays away from him right now as he is so so drunk he has no idea what he's doing!!Im soo confused and I genuinely like this guy but what happened? What is he doing? why invite me over, watch movies and chat and then all of a sudden become a d**k??
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (8 January 2012):
 I would drop him like he's "not" hot~
Alcohol or not, he is an asshat.
The reason he told you he was looking for a NSA (no strings attached) girl that night was to see your reaction.
He seems like a really immature brat and honestly, this will be his GREAT regret real soon once he figured out how badly he screwed up his chance to be with a decent girl, AKA YOU.
Chin up, there are plenty of better guys out there.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 January 2012):
 This post is quite different to the first one that you wrote, you add a lot more details in this one that you failed to mention in the other post. Again same thing it all boils down to alcohol, the last post I said it was all down to him but now it sounds like you both let drink get to you. Sort it out sober.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (8 January 2012):
 Drink has a lot to answer for with relationship problems! People are not themselves when they drink. Add drunk texting to the mix and it's a recipe for disaster! Both of you got drunk and did silly things. I suggest talking to him about it sober and deciding where to go from here then.
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