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I've got 3 guys in my life! I'm confused any advice?

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Question - (8 January 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2012)
A female Australia age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am in this love triangle thing if you could call it that.... Well i like this guy for the past 2 yrs but he just started dating my best friend and then there is this other guy that i have kinda started liking but he just stopped talking to me and i dont know why. Then there is the 3rd guy that is really nice and say he loves me and stuff but everytime we kinda get close he pulls back. I am so confused please give me help and advise...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012):

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ok thaks everyone :)oh and the answer to your question is yes i do like him not putting him up against the others /:)

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A male reader, MrMcLovin United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2012):

I'm your age so I guess I could add another perspective/answer :) I wouldn't waste any time with the second guy if he is ignoring you, it sounds like you have a better chance with the third. You should assess how much you really like the third guy and talk to him about what is holding him back; from a boy's point of view he could just be scared/shy and just as confused as you!

With regard to the person you have liked for 2 years, he is with your best friend and I would just try and accept that they are together and take it as a lesson learnt.

Errm last of all, don't panic. Nothing is worth worrying about. Nothing. Even at my age that is a lesson I've learnt recently. Play it cool, be calm and understanding with the third guy. If it turns out he doesn't like you in that way then move on; you will meet plenty of other people even though it will seem like the end of the world.

Good luck! Don't feel like you have to do anything anyone says on here, we're all just giving advice, only you can decide what to do :)

MrMcLovin.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (8 January 2012):

Moo's Mum agony auntGuy number 1 is off the market now so forget about him. Ask guy number 2 why he's not talking to you. And if you really like guy number 3 then go slowly maybe he's heard you like the other two as well and is frightened of being hurt.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (8 January 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntCount your blessings... I'd give my eye-teeth to get just ONE girl to give me the time of day....

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