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anonymous
writes: Heyy since I turned 15 all I've known is heartbreak, I'm 18 now and I have a friend who is currently helping me out a rather deep thing (I may be suffering depression) sounds rather silly for my age but it's true. She is to my mind the perfect woman where as I'm less than average at the best of times. I like her but I'm 92.5% sure that she only likes me as a friend and again I'm 92.5% that she already knows how I feel about her anyway. I feel as though I shouldn't tell her anything while I'm going through this part of my life but my question is should I tell her 'at all' if I'm so certain of more heartbreak ??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (8 January 2012):
Well first off I am sorry for all the heart break that you have had to put up with, but I guess it is all part of growing up and learning how to deal with these things. If you feel like you are suffering with depression which is actually a very serious illness then go and seek medical help.
As for this girl well I think instead of sitting wondering why you should tell her how you feel and give her a chance to answer you back. If she says she only wants to be friends then you can move on knowing that all it ever will be is a friendship. It is better than not knowing at all. Good luck.
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